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Comment on Facts about Separation Agreements by Chandra bose

Chandra bose — Sat, 28 Jan 2012 10:33:00 +0000

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Comment on Difference between Lust and Love. Thoughts on Subject. by Johnvito2

Johnvito2 — Wed, 18 Jan 2012 03:07:00 +0000

sex with lust is good but sex with love is great u will never feel the most sexual experiance if u dont do it with somone you love passionately

Comment on How Do I Get My Ex Back? If I Tell Him I Am Sorry? by Suzette Hinton

Suzette Hinton — Sat, 19 Nov 2011 02:03:00 +0000

I guess my question would be why do you want him back? Certainly, if you have offended someone or dishonored them, acknowledging it is essential. But I think one should look long and hard before determining they want that person back. Find out the real reason why you want him back. Is it because you feel guilty and want to feel like you’ve done enough? Or do you want the idea of being a couple? Or do you want the security that having a partner brings? I say this because you have to look at the reason you did what you did. Perhaps you two aren’t compatible though the feelings run deep. I caution folks to be honest with themselves so they can be honest with the other person.

Comment on I Want My Husband Back – Making Up Success by Suzette Hinton

Suzette Hinton — Sat, 19 Nov 2011 01:36:00 +0000

I agree, the key to rekindling or reclaiming what was lost starts with you. When you want someone back, you wonder what can I do toward that end. However, when you do things with an agenda, it takes the focus from where it should be — becoming your best self. Healing what is causing you to “need” to have him back. Sometimes it’s not that he’s that great; it’s that we’ve lost ourselves and don’t know who we are without that other person. What an opportunity to grow into a whole person so we can see if we really do want him back after all.

Comment on Dealing With Mentally Abusive Men by Suzette Hinton

Suzette Hinton — Sat, 19 Nov 2011 01:00:00 +0000

Thanks for sharing. You said something very powerful. People stay because they want to fix him or fix themselves. Both the abuser and the abused need to work on themselves – separate – and get to the root of the problem. If they only deal with symptom relief, just as surely as I’m breathing, they’ll vicariously end up in a worse place down the road. There has to be not just a change of behavior but a change of mind. A change of spirit. A change of energy.

Comment on How to Forget Your Ex Within A Day Or Less by Suzette Hinton

Suzette Hinton — Sat, 19 Nov 2011 00:29:00 +0000

Thank you for reminding us to take exceptional care of ourselves after a breakup. Surrounding oneself with experiences and people that fill the emptiness is critical. I know when I broke up with my then-boyfriend it was critical that I create something to look forward to. I didn’t want to keep looking backward due to grief, loneliness or boredom so I got busy creating something to move me forward.

Comment on Keep the doors open by Suzette Hinton

Suzette Hinton — Sat, 19 Nov 2011 00:24:00 +0000

I like your optimistic way of looking at divorce. You sound like a great adventurer. It took me a while for me to get there, but I too started looking at the opportunities and opened up my heart once more. Thanks for sharing.

Comment on Put Me Out of My Misery by Suzette Hinton

Suzette Hinton — Sat, 19 Nov 2011 00:12:00 +0000

Erin, dating can be difficult. It can. I’m sure there are countless women and men who find dating unrewarding and grueling yet they continue to do it because they feel if they don’t, they’ll never meet someone. Or they are just bored! LOL. I know it sounds cliche but I truly sincerely believe this: another person can’t put you out of your misery; only you can do that for yourself. Only you can heal what’s broken. I learned to turn my attentions there. To stop spending dollars dolling up the outside and leaving the inside unattended. Soooo, I’ve been seeing a relationship coach. I was amazed at how my dating life changed for the better. Maybe it was because I was better.

Comment on Keep the doors open by Polonjanka

Polonjanka — Tue, 18 Oct 2011 09:59:00 +0000

It would be interesting to read continuation of your history in some years… When yours new girlfriend 15 years younger than you beautiful tall blond with blue eyes will find new young boyfriend! No kidding!

Comment on I have a child! Is Dating Possible? Is it right for me and my child? by richard

richard — Sat, 15 Oct 2011 15:12:00 +0000

It’s a good thing to date after divorce even if you have children, but make sure you’re meeting the right person and time it when to introduce to the kids – http://divorceddatingtips.com