Always must be NEW relationships
The first and most important thing to remember when you start dating after divorce is to realize you are going for NEW relationships. This will be an absolutely new person, with new habits, new hobbies etc.
Even if you see your old spouse in him or her (which often happens) you need to realize this is a new person.
Even if you see the same things in what he or she is doing – they are things that originated from their own experience and past life. Completely new personality with his/her joys and sorrows , fears and expectations for the future. Exactly as you are.
Let’s have a look at you now.
You are more or less experienced and it is not so easy to believe and trust or to think that something in this world can be new for you. That something can amaze and fill in your heart, that you do not think “they are all the same…”.
Forget about it if you do not want to stay here forever. And you do not want to stay here because you do not feel comfortable and happy here. So the conclusion is simple, you need to leave it here and move forward.
Lets hope before going on a new date, you’ve had enough time to think about what has happened.
Although it is always easy to say what’s going on with the people around you, it is difficult to realize what is happening in your own life. Please try to put every little thing in its place inside of you. Now, some time has passed after your divorce and you are different person. Believe or not, you are.
So you finally have decided to begin a new life after the divorce. You met that wonderful personality and you like him and want to be together?