After divorce many people become unsociable, and live with constant thoughts about previous life.
No matter that their life now has become ‘previous’ already, and in reality doesn’t have any meaning for themselves. Cool, right? Is it you? No? Good for you! Then you definitely know what I’m talking about.
Of course it will take a while before you could even start thinking out of the box. Even for ‘normal’ people it takes some time, he-he. Not talking about such dudes like you and me. But that’s the goal to achieve when you are depressed, ‘down and out’. And the trick to achieve it is not to stop, to stop pitying yourself, to stop sliding down to the bottom of whatever you have chosen in whatever liquid if liquid. The trick is to get there faster! Then happens what should always happen when alive body hits the bottom. Yes, you should be alive and in better shape preferably, that’s why you need to get there fast – to keep your shape. Then you hit the bottom and start going up. And that’s where your best talents should be implemented.
Improvise! Be happy, be prepared, always, 100% of time. Not here or there from 1 to 2 pm and no more. Always. At least normal, average state of mind, however alert for… Love, affairs, adventures! Stable, strong control over stability is a must. Just started losing temper, losing grounds, losing patience – you’re dead; you’ll have to start from beginning. But… you can make it. We all can make it. Jesus! I can tell you so many happy stories about divorced people. So many people are happy after divorce. Take France, French are very comfortable having open sexual relationships in marriage. They never worry about divorce. I haven’t spent much time in France though. Just plans, he-he.
Or take me, I am fine after my divorce, I am happy in my relations now, with my son and new girlfriend 15 years younger than me beautiful tall blond blue eyes. No kidding! I don’t know who taught me this trick, maybe my friend famous musician, or another friend former mafia boss? Who knows and who cares? I have never been a good boy myself. Friends are friends. You pick from your friends, your friends pick from you.
Habits, manners, viewpoint, likes, dislikes, clothes and cell phones! I would say women too, but I should stay within limits here, it’s an open air article, right? Remember France? So, give it or take, after divorce life only starts a new thrilling spin. And you don’t need to jump in, you’re already here! Open your eyes, get used to new environment, and act! Open your doors, doors of your perception, open your eyes and look for love and adventure. Travel overseas? Great, do it! Go to all new places, look at all new people, spend time just for yourself and enjoy it!