Have you learned how to flirt with a guy? Do you watch the way you talk or smile when you are with a guy as well as your body language? How do you tell a new guy that you are interested without saying it? The art of flirting has been around since the beginning of time and is a natural thing. It is so powerful and attracts his attention like nothing else. You may want to start flirting with your new love interest when the butterflies show up in your stomach when you see him. Pay attention to the five suggestions to help you.
You don’t want to be too obvious when you are flirting and a smile is very subtle. It is barely regarded as flirting. You look open and approachable when you smile. It makes you look fun and friendly as well as brightening up your features.
Most people don’t really think of eye contact as flirting but it is one of the most important steps. While you are talking to each other, hold his gaze and then maybe a little longer afterwards. Combining it with a smile will make you a knockout.
Another great way of flirting is to touch your skin to his. By brushing his arm or laying your hand on his are while you talk he will feel the electricity. Put your hand gently on his shoulder while getting in or out of your seat. The power of touch is very erotic.
This tip is most effective in a noisy place such as a crowded bar. During your conversation with him, don’t try to yell to be heard over the din. You don’t want to look like a screaming wife. He’ll be forced to come closer to you if you keep your voice down. Huddling together talking is much more romantic than yelling across a bar.
Try not to be phony with compliments and such. Flirting has to come naturally for it to be effective and cannot be staged. Have a good time with your new guy and don’t worry about your next move. Focus on him and you will be successful with your flirting.
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